#109 Parenting by Design
Lesson 3: Generator/Alchemist
Congratulations for graduation season!
For all the school graduates and for us who are watching and bringing flowers.
I know, I know… maybe we’re not walking across a fancy stage in a cap and gown. Maybe no one’s handing us a Harvard diploma. But don’t tell me you’re not graduating from something. Every soul I meet is celebrating a quiet, invisible victory—some big inner shift that no one claps for.
And I believe those are the most sacred.
So… cheers to your inner graduation. To becoming more YOU.
To becoming the conscious parent you wish you had.
You have my admiration and support.
It’s June.
The greenest, juiciest, most alive month of the year. Nature is blooming. The trees are shouting, “Look at me, I’m alive!” … and that’s what I do! I imagine I am a tree. If you were to be something green this season, what would you be?
So while you’re enjoying the wild beauty of this season, I invite you to sit with me for a moment. Because this letter isn’t just about Human Design—it’s about you, your child, and all dear ones in your life.
In this lesson we learn a little more about the designs humans have, so you can improve your relationships: with your child, your partner, and first and foremost yourself.
You already know about the five energy Types in Quantum Human Design. You know each person is born as a specific type.
Type influences how you learn.
Type contains a specific purpose that you can support yourself and your child in fulfilling.
Type teaches you a lot about how your and your child's energy works.
Type is teaching a lot about what your and your child’s needs are just to stay physically healthy, including how your child sleeps, and what kind of activities your child needs.
Each Type has a unique role, a unique way of making decisions, and a unique way of staying rooted in their resiliency.
So as we go through this exploration of the five Quantum Human Design types, I want you to think about this in the context of your child's Type, but also in the context of your own Type, and your co-parent’s Type as well. Understanding the core themes for each Type supports us in being able to meet children's needs, see them for who they are—and not just your child, but also to honor, respect, and cultivate a more supportive relationship with yourself, with everyone in your life. Regardless of the energetic type differences.