Hello, my loves!
Is it February!?!
I won’t be surprised anymore in the future. Time flies and there's no point in being dramatic. I make peace with time and I am planning to age gracefully through infinity.
I was just told that one of my favorite humans, who was in my class when I first started to work as a teacher, is getting married. What? Andrei is not the little curious mushkin looking to explore the world around him? Yes, he is the mature, responsable big boy who fell in love and wants to explore more in life with the one who inspires him to live more fully. I am so happy to hear he dares to take life by the horns with an open heart.
To a happy fairytale!
Communication by design
On this happy note I am continuing the communication adventure. This time based on human design, where communication is seen as an energy release. Each energetic type has a different way to talk and express what they think, what they feel, and what they want. I am personally impressed by this tool I have learnt in my quantum human design certification. I verified it with children, with adults in my close circle, and also with a few clients. I don’t even need the chart to know their type, by listening to them I am learning about their need to be heard, loved, and valued. I have friends who call me to just talk, talk, talk only about themselves. I used to get annoyed and feel unloved when they led a talk like that. With all I know today, I tell myself: this person might need a sounding board and they only need to talk it out; or they have gate 56, the Gate of Expansion also called the storyteller and that says it all. Also an open/undefined Throat Center, a non-motorized Throat Center, and open/undefined G Center have the need to talk a lot. I am an alchemist with a non-motorized throat center and I do find myself talking too much sometimes. Now I know why.
Based on this I dare to tell them sincerely that I do not have time to hear the whole story but we can schedule another time when I have more energy to listen well. I also tell them up front I need to talk and be listened to. It works! I don’t get annoyed and we don’t waste time when the conversation is not in balance from both sides. My friends learnt to tell me from the beginning why they called me: “I called you because I need to be heard, can you listen to me a little?” or they mention to me their thought before calling: “Let me call Miha, she will help me lift my spirits.”, and I love it the most when they say:“Oh, I really needed this talk with you Miha!”. Why? Because I have learnt to listen based on what energy calls out for and I took an amazing course on professional listening. Amazing information that saves lives.
When we look at communication through the lens of Quantum Human Design, communication is an energy release. There are people, particularly Alchemists, Orchestrators, and Calibrators, who need to talk to move energy. Recognizing that this is an essential part of staying healthy on an energetic level, especially in a relationship where is important to make sure that you, as a parent or partner, are really staying in the flow of communicating in an aligned and healthy way with your loved ones.
Communication by Type
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